twinflames

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Ive had many readings done, some picking up on the fact myself and the man in question are twin flames or at least a strong telepathic soul connection, everyone bar one has said the same, noone thinks im wasting my time, i know in my own intuition i am not either, ive asked for clarification so many times on it also and received signs and answers. im not letting this man walk all over me, i know he’s scared and fears opening up to me, every reading has been the same but timescales have always varied/moved now i dont actually believe it’s because the psychics were bad or fake they picked up the situation so so so accurately i just know with these relationships its about mirroring behaviour with your own (ie you have to be the perfect template with a high vibration, to make yourself reflect able to get together so to speak) does anyone out there have experience with this and seen two twin flames make it, it seems so rare! i feel we will be together, everyone has said we will be, but i also know its not so simple as a lot of relationships and you cannot just employ the same strategies, im constantly sent challenges and ive been doing them one by one, but now i do feel like my bit is done so to speak.

gosh i have completely changed as a person in the past year and a half since we met. I am in a much better place now but i pick up on him telepathically and his energy sometimes i just sob all day when i was perfectly happy 5 minutes before, its really hard, i just wondered if anyone had advice on seeing twin flame couples work out i have never really met anyone else ive ever loved and the love here is overwhelming i have no feelings for anyone else and just feel that id be hurting them as ultimately it would just be comfort and i cant date someone for that.

advice would be amazing i dont think i need anymore readings atm, im beign guided to use my intuition for a bit but i have had many here in my worst stages and still use for occasional guidance.

I think you do need a reading,myself…if it is still making you cry,then you havent worked through it. Also I am wondering why everyone feeds into this twin flame thing. If we all had only person we would ever be happy with,dont you think most of us would be unhappy because of it? If that was the case most folks would not find people they were happy with. Come to me for a reading now and lets get this situation taken care of. Blessed be!

well im nearly 30 and i had plenty of eligible offers from great guys but i was never really interested pretty much single mostly and then he blew me away, just the energy it gets stronger even if we had not spoken for 8 months whatever it is its some crazy spiritual connection, after meeting 3 times he even told me himself we had a spiritual connection, i should have opened up more back then but i had too much fear! i have learnt acceptance of the situation and been working on myself and clearing a lot of things but yes i do just cry for no reason still and the love i feel is through the roof. but every single reading says the same, and has done for the past 8 months that he loves me, but he’s scared he;ll loose me and doesnt want to hurt me and it’s why hes blowing hot and cold and keeping himself away, but he will come round (varying timescales) and i just need to keep positive, there is noone else i will be with, everyone else ive ever even tried to suggest every psychic has said they are not the one for you you will hurt them you will be with (original twin flame guy) and i agree with them i know in myself i would hurt anyone else.

this is what the readings say but as mirrors i know there is probably more healing i need to do thats probably more what i need to know now ive had enough readings with exactly the same answers whuch i do believe, sorry i really ranted on!

Not a problem but you should come to me in chat for a reading on this. That way I can give you som ereal answers to help you.

i dont need more readings on my situation at this moment but an understanding of the energy levels at work with these connections all readings based around the situation will say the same with varying timeframes theres more about these type of thingsim positive of it.

meadowssong for sure, ive researched it for a year i know quite a bit but i also know reading the situation doesnt always work out for soul connections sure a lot can pick up what you are both thinking and feeling, but its a lot about working on yourself as well as they work like mirrors and reflect back, lol funny as i thought he was doing things and it’s only recently i realise that i was JUST as guilty, it is sure as hell a reflection, and why its so hard to get it perfect enough to make these relationships work but i do think its as much working on yourself as looking into the other,

you cant ‘need’ them for happiness, just love them, you cant have anger, hate resentment, for yourself or them, its a challenge for sure.

when you open p to the universe youll see your set little challenges, im constantly being guided to get over my fears and open up to him so he can do the same,

the thing is the connection does not die, and i dont believe the universe dangles carrots like that of making you suffer when you cant acheive this, not in the way that it does with these things, theres definitely things we are actively meant to be doing even if its learning patience, ive found as i listen and work on things the pain eases slightly with each thing i do although the love remains just as strong.

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but i do think readings are still important i tend to get them to see how things chnage when i overcome something thats been a really big challenge for me to see how things change, im sort of doing my own experiments as i go :/! lol i have to say araya was probably the best read ive had on picking up the energies and makingme realise im not going crazy when i feel him, and his emotions sporadically when we think of each other. she was very very very good but i do still think this topic is super hard to read as involves so many factors other than feelings.

There is no such thing as a “twin flame.” If you mean that poetically, in the sense that you feel a particularly strong connection with this person, then that’s one thing. But please don’t take it literally to mean that there is only one person out there who is your “twin” or “soulmate,” and that if you miss out on him/her, then you’ve missed out for this lifetime. That’s frankly just New Age romantic malarkey.

There are 7 billion people on this planet. For each one of us, there are many, many thousands of people with whom we could fall in love and live happily ever after. Of course we don’t meet most of them; the average person only meets a few people who fill the bill. No doubt this rarity is what leads people to think that there’s such a thing as a “twin flame” or a “soulmate.” But it’s just a question of exposure, really.

When you’re in love, it’s natural to feel that this is the ONLY person in the world for you and so on. But that simply isn’t true. People heal from lost relationships all the time, and go on to find even better ones.

I agree,Sophie. It would be a real crap shoot with some terrible odds that anyone would ever even find that “One”. What if your “twin flame” was in a country you would never ever go to …oh well! I believe we all have many soulmates…

Exactly, Robin. I wish this “twin flame” notion had never taken hold, because I think it just makes people even more anxious about that ONE person, that ONE relationship.

The older we get the more we realize it just doesn’t work that way.

well if in different countries i guess your lives are bought together its not often you come down at the same time so yes it is rare to even have a twin flame around and if you are meant to be together then there will be made a way for you to cross paths, noone knows for sure do they but many people go on holiday/travel and you very instantly know there is a bond that is unreasobable for the amount of time you have known each other, i certainly didnt go out looking for it thats for sure, i had never heard of a twin flame when i met this guy and i have no allusions at all to some great romantic instant love story its been the hardest and most life changing events of my whole life since we met. i only researched it as i couldnt work out what the hell was going on, even my friends had never seen me or a guy behave in such a manner and didnt really question it and some of these are not even spiritual, they also couldnt believe how much i have changed over the year. whatever it is its a strong spiritual connectionas im not here to argue about things noone knows for sure and we can label it soul connection if it’s easier to accept, but it does seem we mirror each other in behaviour even when not obvious and when i work on myself it directly changes the readings with him, im talking about how the energy changes thins more tahn what hes thinking feeling etc. i have had a lot of readings in the past it helps me know what hes thinking at different times and what affect the work im doing on myself is having on the union but it never seems to be able to change the situation, if you guys pick up there is something that i can be following through on an action plan, then id be interested to hear of course.

Twin flames are born of the Ascended Masters/I Am movement. While touched on briefly by Guy Ballard, who founded the movement, the concept really came to prominence through Elizabeth Clare Prophet. She was also the first to speak of female masters.

Now, the idea of twin flames is, each of the masters is a twin flame with another master. That they have a spiritual mission together. When you are supposed to have a twin flame on the mortal realm, (for lack of a better term,) you are both supposed to be on the same spiritual mission. If a spiritual mission is not involved, this person is not a twin flame. Also, you are supposed to have just about everything in common with a person, if that person is your twin flame.

Or at least, that tends to be the position of those who follow the Summit Lighthouse and the teachings of Elizabeth Clare Prophet.

The I AM Foundation has a different take on twin flames entirely, which is a bit more complicated.

Sadly, people think the term sounds good, it sounds pretty, etc. Chances are, it is not being used in the proper context.

The next time you’re told that someone is a twin flame, ask them about the St. Germain teachings and the violet flame. If they don’t know what you’re talking about, they’re just using the phrase to make you feel warm and fluffy.

Keep in mind, even if someone does follow the teachings of the masters, every group is going to teach something different. Why? Because all information comes from channeling. Edna Ballard finally settled in New Mexico after her husband died, she continued channeling the masters, so in this state, there are tons of Ascended Masters groups. So in the year I’ve been here, I’ve been hearing quite a bit about the entire movement. It’s big here.

thats no fair miss ann, i have read all about st germain and the violet flame, its bizarre because i walked into a room for reiki and the guy said wow i dont normally tell ppl my random thoughts but st germain is so strong around you, and there have been many other things causing me to look into him which i still dont know anything like enough about, BUT i didnt know anything when i met the man i believe is my twin, i was thrown into it and taught to learn after we dont all have a massive knowledge before although admitedly there was always something lurking in my head i was here for service but it only made the sense and things clicked when i hit my dark night and i stumbled accross the concepts and things made sense its the only way they could make sense. and i still feel this now.

there are many ppl that go looking for a twin flame or turn a soulmate or karmic relationship into the notion of one, i agree it is only pretty when you make your own self the perfect mirror to be reflected back this is so flaming hard its why not many succed but i never was a quitter, and i was never led to quit by the universe either i was always encouraged

i am not here to prove myself to anyone, i did not ask a psychic if we were, i asked for signs, and from my guides, my own intuition and a couple of specialists, i never asked a psychic once altho0ugh a few have picked it up and nearly all have picked up our telepathy and spiritual connection, i was simply asking for someone who could read around twin flame energy as i know its a different kind of read to a normal relationship.

i think its unfair to suggest that everyone knows all this stuff or they wouldnt be twin flames very judgmental we all have to start and learn somewhere admittedly its a fast road once you start but you have to be ‘put’ on it so to speak.