what to do

over 13 years ago
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evitisop

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i was told a long time ago i would meet a young man who i wud need to concentrate on been friends with, he wud have a daughter, this has happened, and i am friends with this person, his x is currently preg, with his daughter or who we believe is his daughter, we have something goin on more than friends but i cant decide if its a no go, i dont wanna b his secret forever, i need to know whether to move on, i have waited a long time, i do think he is worth it but i also doubt anything will eva change, i dont want to b single or classed as single 4eva

over 13 years ago
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angel (angel34)

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that guy will always have a bond with his ex and they will always remain in each others lives that you will have to accept. I once knew someone who went on to meet a woman who then became friends with their ex they often socialise together. The key here is the children as they are the most affected their needs come first. The question is are you willing to share your time with this guy with others as that is what you will have to do if you can’t then you know what to do but if you can then this friendship has a chance of going further.

over 13 years ago
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over 13 years ago
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SoulTruth (truthseer)

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With a persons birth numbers so much can be revealed about why they are the way they are…and how to change situations for better results…this guy seems to me to have the best of both worlds and as long as that keeps working he will keep doing …Don’t you think?

over 13 years ago
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evitisop

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I have children myself so understand this totally

over 13 years ago

Dear,

I feel this guy is not suitable for you at this time. you have to leave this guy . I am available for the more guidance . contact me as i would tell you what to do in the future. thanks.

over 13 years ago
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Ms Angela (diamondtarot)

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Hello Dear, Yes ….people are complex creatures, they are fragile, they are strong, they are wise and sometimes they are as daft as a brush and all in one day! They Baffle eachother and they often don’t mean what they say. In a reading with me, together we can find out what is really going on in your relationship. Contact me when I am online or leave me a message if you feel you need to talk to someone!

Love, Angela

over 13 years ago
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ME (destinyseeker)

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Being a potential dad – not knowing whether he is the actual dad could be putting a strain on him. She could know the truth (and is using it as a form of control).. IF it is his child, there will be a commitment between him and his ex, but i wouldn’t say ‘Strong Bond’ and NO, you shouldn’t have to be made a ‘Secret’ unless he’s afraid of you being caught up in the middle of everything, and he’s thinking more of you and your relationship rather than himself. I do get the impression though that she (his ex) is controlling him by using this child as an excuse. And i am going by what i felt when my ex got pregnant and for months had me guessing whether i was the dad or not.

over 13 years ago
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evitisop

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i think he has decided he is the dad now, i dont know n have even said 2 him he prob best never finding out now he prepared himself, it just seems wierd, there has been times wen he has said things that will happen in the future now all i get is he wont say what will happen bcos he dosnt no

over 13 years ago
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evitisop

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normally am very gud at knowin what to do, but wen am emotionally strained it dosnt work, i think i cud walk away now if i had 2 but i still have that feelin that all will b rite, but if i was 2 walk away it wud b totally and we promised we wud rather b just friends than nothin at all :(

over 13 years ago
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Ms Angela (diamondtarot)

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Hi, You tried to contact me but I experienced a technical difficulty with my chat. Please try again, I’m online love, Angela