hopeless and miserable

over 12 years ago

for the past 3-4 years, my life has just fallen apart in every aspect. I keep trying to tell myself it will get better, but it just doesn’t. I really need some help figuring out if this will ever change or if this is it. Did I do something wrong somehow that I need to fix? This is a last resort as I don’t know what to do anymore, any help would be greatly appreciated.

over 12 years ago
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Debbie (angel90)

399 posts

Wow I have to ask how is it that you let things go on that long if it were only 3 or 4 months then I wouldn’t be asking that but 3 to 4 years thats unreal. But you have come to the right place. I want you to forget the past as its just that no point on dwelling on whats already happened. Today is the first day of the rest of your life.

Now I want you to write a list of every problem you face and then a plan to move forward for example

I have no job Make contact with 6 to 8 employment agencies and sign up for temp work while you look for permanent work. Make contact with companies directly you would like to work for sending them your cv which should not be more than 3 pages and a covering letter matching the type of work you would like to do the letter should outline your strengths, what you can offer and why they should hire you. 70% of jobs are not advertised. I would also place ads on noticeboards and the internet such as gumtree for work wanted. I would also put the word out that your looking for work to family and friends and ask them to let you know when jobs come up and refer you. Make sure you have 2 references you need to get permission to put them forward.

The above is just an example of how to solve a problem I am not saying this is what your dealing with just showing how to go about solving a problem.

I would speak to citizens advice beaureau and they can refer you to other organisations and some services are free. If it is legal issues your dealing with seek legal advice from a community law centre its normally free I would also apply for legal aid.

If it is financial go and speak with a budget advisor they can also write letters on your behalf and refer you in regards to debt consolodation etc. They can show you your options.

If it is trying to get pregnant then I would go to a clinic that specialises in pregnancy options and testing etc

If it is medical no advisor here is allowed to give you medical advice you need to see a doctor and get a second and third opinion don’t give up demand people take you seriously.

If your having relationship issues you might want to consider couples councelling but also have a read of win back love by annalyn caras and also catchem and keepem by christian carter they are very good relationship programmes that work.

If the issue is a problem ex then seek legal advice as to your best approach and keep a record of everything that happens dates times and what happens and whats said.

There is always a way round everything. Just don’t give up.

I would also advise having your aura cleansed just to get rid of the negative energy that may have built up from frustration and getting upset its not expensive you could go to a healing centre that specialises in it or do it yourself.

From this moment forward its about taking action by writing down all you face and solutions you can then take action and once things start happening the stress etc you feel will melt away and you will start to feel happier.

over 12 years ago

Merry Meet Christina,

I see you looking out at the world through funny tunnel vision kind of visions.

I feel your frustrations also. Your new beginning is right at your feet.

Connect with me in Live Chat for Complete Enlightenment

over 12 years ago
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YOUR LOVE PSYCHIC (psychicreadingsbycindy)

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Hi sweetie im sorry to hear about what you have been going through and i would like to help you out with some guidence also help you out with those questions you have please contact me live for a full detailed reading

over 12 years ago
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MRS.LEA.GARCIA☼ (ms.lea.garcia)

285 posts

hey hun, i am Lea, i know alot of people may sugar coat everything and tell you all positive feedback but thats not what your looking for you had Alot of letdowns the past yrs, and i will tell you how everything is point blank and where its truely going with accuracy and honesty, if you click my name view my profile and call or send a msg with your date of birth i will be able to tell you where your life is heading :) Godbless

over 12 years ago
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Ashley Nicole Martin (mirror_of_infinity)

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I see you are in great pain and you even feel very trapped right now… You are a warrior of great strength… all these issues are nessicary for your personal growth… You are being guided by your higher self right now…Do not fear these things…

I tell you this is all a great gift being given to you… I know it is kind of hard to see it like this right now. In time though you will conquer over this. You are working through karma from all your past lives. When all this is finished you will be in a state of balance. This is a nessicary step, so as you can graduate to the higher realms after you have worked through your past life karma.

It is realy yourself helping you to be brought into balance. I feel this very strongly… Contact me if you wish to know more… :) If not though, just be strong.

I send you my love and tell you that you have strength inside of you that others don’t. It is nothing that you are “currently” doing to cause this. This is a taste of, for lack of a better term, fate helping you to restore the balance and equilibrium… Be strong, I feel it won’t last to much longer. You will be such a stronger person when it is over. You can use what you learn to help others, that may be part of this process you are going through… You ARE a WARRIOR of great strength… I feel this strongly…

over 12 years ago
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Starsalign (starsalign)

190 posts

Fortunately enough I drawed a card for you that is quite positive.the empress up right. This card represents a very fruitful forthcoming time in your life. It depicts a woman with child. Though in more light hearted form this card represents giving birth to ideas and aspirations of your inner spirit. The empress did not come to this fruitful time of her life without going through some type of struggle. Please message me and we can look into further getting you to this time in your life and what you must do to invoke the blessing of this card. Message me and i will provide a brief 3 card reading for you,free of charge,just need your date of birth,exact time,city,am or pm-stacy