Manifesting Romance

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The law of attraction is a hot topic, and there are some common pitfalls people get into especially related to romance. The most common are projecting manifestations into the future, identifying an individual as the goal, overindulgence in fantasy, and lack presence or integrating gratitude into the manifestation practice. Here is a two part manifestation prescription for people wanting a better love life.

If an individual wants to make manifestation an actual practice in life it is important to have a discipline related to the goals he or she wants to accomplish. It is important to set a time limit for a manifestation practice. If an individual is practicing “manifestation” 24-hours a day it is likely that he or she has lost touch with reality. This is not a manifestation practice it is living in fantasy.

A daily practice should be at least 5-10 minutes. Visualization is also an important key in a successful practice. Keep visualizations as present experiences rather than projections. The potential will always remain in the future until the individual is willing and able to bring these experiences into the present moment.

Another pitfall for individuals practicing the law of attraction comes for those people that already have an object of attraction. They have an ex they want to get back or a friend they want to date. In this situation the best thing to do is not even consider the object of their affection during the practice. If having an image of an individual is necessary for the manifestation process, consider choosing someone that represents an ideal archetype. The idea is not to make the visualization more obscure, but to keep the object of his or her attraction out. If there is not already a connection there are potential negative emotions attached due to the current separation from the object of his or her attraction. Whether it is separation issues, dysfunction in the relationship, or just disagreement the vibrational energy associated with that person is not conducive to upgrading the current vibration in the practitioner’s experience. If the practitioner cannot keep from focusing on the object of their attraction/affection then they will likely recreate the undesired results over and over again simply because they could not separate themselves from the existing energy associated with their current manifested experience.

The second and most important part of a manifestation prescription is gratitude. Practitioners that successfully manifest their desires as a lifestyle tend to have an overall attitude of gratitude. To get started it is important for a practitioner to take a few minutes each day to do an assessment of the day and find situational experiences that to be grateful about. It does not have to be big situations, but it does have to be real situations.

When getting started it is normal for individuals to have gratitude for more generalized experiences such as, “I am grateful for my breath. The food on my table. A roof over my head. A warm bed to sleep.” And so on. These are wonderful things to be grateful about, and it is recommended for individuals to look at these things first and express gratitude. Especially if they have lived a life without expressing adequate gratefulness for these things. However, these are not necessarily situational expressions of gratitude. Unless an individual has such horrible asthma that he or she needs a rescue inhaler several times throughout the day, has been hungry for a significant period of time, or homeless and living on the street, these are everyday things rather than unique situational experiences. However a practitioner should not spend more than one or two weeks of being grateful for these things as his or her primary attitude of gratitude. Focusing on these things when starting an individual’s consciousness will likely be such that it will identify more situational opportunities for gratitude.

Why gratitude? Situational gratitude does two things. First it raises awareness. Many times individuals are stuck in negative cycles simply because he or she is not aware of the good things that already exist their life. Second, situational gratitude will give us an expectation for a good future.

It is more important that a practitioner ties their attitude of gratitude and his or her manifestation practice together. It is imperative that gratitude is practiced first before it is integrated into the manifestation practice. Practitioners need to know how gratitude feels to successfully use it as a tool in the manifestation process.

Once an individual has fully integrated an attitude of gratitude into his or her daily conscious experience they can begin to incorporate it into the visualization practice and be grateful for the relationship that he or she is seeing during the manifestation practice. This will empower the manifestations and put him or her on the fast track for accomplishing the goal.