Master Your Life Lessons Part IV

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Anger is not a bad thing, it propels you to stand up for yourself, and what you believe in, but fortunately you have to learn to use it without being to harmful. Anger allows you to know people are crossing your physical, emotional, spiritually, and psychological boundaries.

You don’t need to play mind games with people. It’s co-dependency, and dysfunctional. If people can’t handle you being straight forward and honest, it’s because most people beat around the bush, be deceptive, hide behind fears, and play mind games. It’s a habit they’ve formed in their life. It’s what they’ve accepted and choose not to change in themselves. It’s what societal norms have agreed upon in their families, society, or maybe culturally. (Human conditioning) Failing to see it can be changed, but they choose not to individually and collectively.

It’s better to stay to the facts, and if there is no evidence, it is not a fact. Don’t harbor ill feelings towards another person. Why because like attracts like. If you attack someone’s character, they are going to naturally attack yours.

People like to say they are not attacking you, but actually they are, or they wouldn’t be trying to rip apart your character and life, and make you feel bad about yourself. There is no reason to move with violence other than too your own ego and pride is standing in the way.

Keep a positive mind at all times, and focus on love. It’s an attack on your psyche, to make you feel your whole entire belief system is wrong, to make you feel confused, to make you feel incompetent. It’s an attack on you to make you think you are not capable of making good choices, making good judgements for your life.

If you listen to all this kind of crap, you will fail if your dumb enough to fall for it, and believe it. It rattles your cage, and makes you become frozen so you can’t move forward. Lose the negative beliefs and move forward anyway, no matter how much trash their throwing at you, no matter how many times they spit at you, or think they have more money than you, or materialism, or think they are better than you.

Their motives can be numerous, don’t waste your time, or energy trying to figure out other people. Don’t even focus on them. Move towards the goal. Move around the obstacles, and block the negativity from your life.