Admitting you have to be the one to change III

1 post, 1 voice

Back to News & Articles

16. Choices! It is all about choices every second of the day. You choose whether to call that woman or man back? You choose to focus on the them You choose to stay home and wait for them online, or on the phone. You choose to go back to them when you arleady know they cheat, lie, and play with your mind emotionally, spiritually, and mentally. You’re the only one that keeps going back for more. If you already know he/she’s a child abuser, sexual abuser, and physically hits you or someone else, you choose to stay in that situation and not protect yourself or your children. They are tough choices to make? You may even be filled with fear about finances, about how your life will turn out, and no it will not be easy for a period of time, but is it worth living in so much pain and suffering? Don’t you deserve a better life, and don’t your children?

17.) Do you have self worth? Do you have confidence in yourself? You are the best person to take care of you. If you quit and give up on yourself, who else will be there to pick up your life? It is your life and if you don’t value who you are, and love you, than most likely no one else will ever give you the love you deserve.

18.)It all starts with you. No one can help you if you don’t get up and start fighting for your life. You can be a victim most of your life unaware of what you’re doing, being confused, and following everyone else’s direction, but at some point in time you must take your life in your own hands. Some point in time you must step out of the old you, and create a new one that makes better choices for your life.

19.)You’re afraid of being alone. Let me tell you something when you are faced with being alone, you will realise you don’t need someone to hold your hand every step of the way of your life. You can make something out of yourself, and stop being clingy, needy, and having to have someone else say the right thing, or do the right thing to put a smile on your face. You may be alone for a short time, but odds are, you will not be alone forever. If you can entertain yourself for a change instead of expecting everyone else to stop what they’re doing, you might find joy in knowing who you are, and what talents, gifts, and find out what you have to offer to your community, world, and those lives that touch yours every day. Stand on your own two feet and be proud of yourself and who you are!

20.)Loneliness is different then being alone. Loneliness comes from you isolating yourself from the world outside. Hibernating alone and not making an effort to socialize or experience life with others around you. Loneliness is not having a good support system emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically. Loneliness comes from not seeing your own self worth, and that you have something to contribute to the world. Loneliness stops you from being a shining star, and living life with purpose and on purpose.