Are You In Alignment With Your Partner

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One area in our lives we are unaware of is in relationships we can focus in on man or woman and believe they’re the right man or woman simply because we desire this person and dream about being with them.

Many relationships are based on love or simply don’t exist because one or both partners are not interested in relationships for the sake of love.

Some men and women are very goal oriented and seek the path of success and finances. Others may value relationships and love over materialism and money.

We can be very confused when we tie ourselves up in a knot with a partner that doesn’t value relationships and love as much as we do.

Where does the person stand on love and finances. We are usually taught that we grow up, getting married, have a few children, get any job, and we’re supposed to live happily ever after.

Often what we are faced with is a partner that may have very different dreams and goals.

Many successful men and woman do separate themselves from others, and decide they only want a relationship where it involves sex, manipulation, and control of the relationship.

There are other men and woman that are love based and want true love, work together to create a nice home, family, and both want a stable financial bank account.

There are still others who choose simply love and could careless about materialism, money, and are happy with what they have.

What kind of partner do you have, and do there goals, dreams, and vision match up with yours? It becomes very distressful if you’re not in alignment with your partner.

A spiritual relationship of unconditional love is quite different in the sense, it doesn’t put money, power, and greed above their loved ones.

There are many combinations of relationship styles and we can’t put them all in one box. It still is important to understand what your morals, values, and ethics are in creating a relationship that fits your life.

If you and your partner disagree on many important issues, it becomes very stressful, and uncomfortable. The other person may have a different mindset than you, and even may favor other things more than you such as money, power, greed, drugs, alcoholism, gaming, and also may even suffer from mental impairments and disabilities.

Relationships are designed with many key components that we must face every day. Illness, finances, family, friends, ethics, morals, values, beliefs, thinking patterns, emotions, feelings, different points of view, back story, trauma, tragedy, happiness, joy, bliss, sexuality, education, social class, spiritual views, religion, atheism, abuse, and many things create chaos and confusion.

We make things personal and about us, but there are many different components that can be out of balance or not in alignment. In a relationship it is about we over me.

Where do you stand and where does your partner stand. It’s always important to see if your compatible, and whether there really is a soul connection there, empathy, compassion, understanding, and a relationship that can be built on stable ground and thrive long term.

Some people are only seeking relationships for self gratification and sex. And we set ourselves up to fail when we’re not honest and clear about what we really want out of a relationship and what our partner wants.

We end up getting hurt when we don’t match up and align in a partnership that serves the greater good for both parties.